
You know those people in your life who you haven’t seen in years, but as soon as you see them, it’s as if no time has passed? We have been lucky enough to have quite a few great friends like that in our life. Being with these friends brings me back to myself like nothing else in the world. This weekend, we spent the weekend with Elena (our gracious hostess in Milan), Denis, Sean and Aparche - I think we both really needed to catch up with these guys. It was like one long, relaxed exhale all weekend. I feel great. There is a pile of picture from the weekend here if you’d like to see some great and not so great photos of Italy.
Matthias and I headed down early on Thursday morning (labor day), and the rest were there waiting for us. We headed out to see a bit of Milan once we got there. There was a big labor day festival in town next to the castle. We all ended up crashing out in the park before heading back before walking through the crazy crowd of drunk Italians celebrating/protesting in the streets. We ambled down toward the canals in Milan for an apperitivo (I had my first 9 euro coke!) before heading back to Elena’s for some dinner.
As usual with our good friends, much of the weekend revolved around eating and chilling out. My theory is that we enjoy eating together because our time together is nourishment for the soul - the food is the embodiment of that. Either that, or we are just all pigs looking for an excuse to stuff ourselves! We also tend to bring a lot of good food with us, so it would be a shame to waste it. Matthias brought some Weiss Wurst and beer. Denis brought three goats worth of cheese! It was good.

On Friday, we took the train over to Venice. Venice is awesome! It was the first time there for Matthias, Sean and me. It is the kind of place that really looks as beautiful as it does in pictures. Even though there are a ton of great Venice photos uploaded from the trip, these two were my favorite! We needed a bit of a break after a lot of walking (we are not as young as we used to be). The only thing that’s different than what I imagined was the hoard of people on every street! We weren’t the only ones to have the idea to go there on Friday. Aside from that, the city was great. We had a fantastic lunch next to one of the canals and then took a Gondola ride after picking up some ice cream - We had the best chocolate ice cream EVER!
On Saturday, Elena took us to her friend Luca Hettner who is an up and coming designer. He is a really nice guy who showed us his Frida Forever collection for the summer. Aparche, in search of a graduation dress, modeled some of the clothes for us. I was soooo bummed that my big belly and backside inhibited me from being able to try on the clothes. How often do you get to try on clothes in the designer’s office? Once I get my body back, we need to schedule another Milan visit! I also encouraged him to make a maternity line next - he kissed my belly instead, which is almost as good. I was surprised Matthias like the visit to Luca’s so much. He said he felt like he was in an episode of Sex & the City, so he had a great time.
Elena and I went on a little adventure to China town at 7:30 that morning. She has been doing Aikido at the Scuola della Respirazione (school of breathing) for about the past 7 months, and she took me to see her class. I wasn’t planning on practicing at all as I am avoiding activities that require me to be thrown to the floor for obvious reasons. However, once I got there, a student approached me about practicing and assured me that pregnant women have come before. The place and people had such a great energy that I felt comfortable. Elena and two of the senior students helped me put on the uniform - they had a spare maternity uniform, which also made me feel comfortable. The class was a lot of fun (no one threw me to the ground, in case you are wondering), and I can totally see why she loves it. The style combines breath work with the movements of Aikido, so it is a beautiful dance when done properly (which I didn’t manage). The teacher is awesome! If I seemed confused, which was often, he came over, took a deep breath as I touched him to do the moves, and suddenly I knew what to do! He also gave the blob a little energy blessing! That was nice. It’s cool that Elena has found her Yoga in the Aikido. I can see why she is drawn to it. If I lived in Milan, I’d go with her! (my legs and knees are still sore today from the practice)
Anyway, after lots of eating, walking, napping, and chatting with good friends, Matthias and I both feel pretty full of life. It was nice to get away from apartment searches and all of things that made us feel stressed here. I hope we can keep that positive energy with us through the rest of the year!
PS - Venice has the best chocolate ice cream in the world!!! If you got there, I highly recommend it.